It excites me to play with my mind and body surprise me and, above all, to risk. I am excited by a sure girl or boy of herself, from what she wants, of her body and what she wants to do with me. Obviously I like to worry about me, but it overwhelms me and the libido lowers me when someone has a hesitative attitude towards sex and constantly asks me if everything goes well, if I like it. I like to be dominated, but occasionally have the control